Summer Holiday Freedom

On holiday I read Hens Dancing by Raffaella Barker. It’s about a year in the life of Venetia, a newly single mum, and her three children. She’s of the “scatty-never-on-time-school-run-in-pyjamas” category and you’re supposed to despair at her chaos. But I found myself reading it like a parenting manual. What I liked was her ability [...]

A tough choice: balancing Independence and Safety

I have been writing recently about why children need risk. In The Sunday Times (4 July 2010) there was an article about an interesting aspect of this.

Two parents had decided to let their children, aged 8 and 5, cycle to school alone. They live in Dulwich. They were cycling along pavements and only crossed one road, with [...]

Mrs Brown and Mrs Cameron

I found the climax of our country’s political drama strangely moving last night.

Watching coverage of the speeches as Gordon Brown ended his time as Prime Minister and David Cameron started his, my eyes were drawn, both times, away from the men to their wives. I thought how hard it must be for them to stand and [...]

Preparing Children for School - too much pressure?

I recently posted about categories of mums including ”competitive” mums. Naively I wondered why mums were getting so stressed about the achievements of their young children. Then I read a letter in Nursery World describing how a private prep school sends a 24 page document to parents of children joining its reception class stating that before [...]

What is the mums’ community like where you live?

This week I read a great post from blogger Plan B in response to an article by Lucy Cavendish in The Observer. LC was writing about the “battle” between mums who parent in different ways and Plan B countered that she’d never experienced anything like this in the blogging community. As part of this discussion, blogger Deer [...]

Happy Mothers

Researching for my new column (sorry, I couldn’t resist mentioning it, I’m so excited. It’s in Nursery World and the first instalment is published this week, my copy arrived today!) I found an interesting article called Trying their Hardest, about a report from the Joseph Rowntree Foundation called Parenting in Ordinary Families: Diversity, complexity and [...]

Book Club - Rape of the Fair Country by Alexander Cordell

While the country was paralysed due to snow, book club met to discuss Rape of the Fairy Country by Alexander Cordell. This had been suggested by D who was introduced to AC’s books by her mother.

Rape of the Fair country is the first of a trilogy following the lives of the Mortymer Family. While the [...]

Nick Clegg and Gina Ford

Nick Clegg has been criticised in the media for taking on Gina Ford and her parenting formula. I agree he was unwise to dismiss what does work for others. We all have our own parenting styles and what is right and what is wrong is not always obvious – and a very subjective and emotive [...]

Snow and the Interfering State

School was open today and weather forecasters are predicting a big thaw over the weekend. Now I’m starting to panic how I will cope next week without my “snow day”. Despite my objections to the principles, I’ve got used to our days off. It’s become a treat to be protected by the muffler of snow [...]

Living with Snow

Okay, so it’s quite hard work getting children in and out of coats, hats, gloves and boots, but I’m quite enjoying living with snow. It’s beautiful; cold and crisp, huge crystals glittering in the sunshine. We are finally experiencing the stereotypical images of winter that are usually only seen in Christmas cards and history books.

Maybe [...]